Frequently Asked Questions

Escort for Women

Frequently Asked Questions

Escort Service for Women

FAQ’s | Escort Booking

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The decision: Should I, as a Woman, send a Booking Request without obligation or not?

We know from stories that it has taken quite a few Women a portion of courage to send a Booking Request for a Male Companion, even though it is without obligation.

Questions such as:

Am I “allowed” to do that as a Woman? Can I trust a Male Escort at all? Will we even understand each other? What if he doesn’t find me attractive? Can I even let myself go with a strange Man? What about health issues? How does a date like this usually work? As a Woman, do I have to take care of things during the date? What happens if I book and then don’t have time at short notice?

Such thoughts are understandable.

On the one hand, there are your wishes, needs and fantasies that you want to live and that have led you to the haut-nah portal and, at the same time, questions that stand in the way of these thoughts.

That’s normal and it’s not just you.

Here are the frequently asked questions and thoughts from Women who are thinking about booking an Male Escort and the answers to them.

Is it possible to get to know each other free of charge and without obligation before Escort Booking?

If you wish, you can make an appointment with the respective Escort and Companion in advance for a telephone call or video call without obligation, e.g. via Zoom or Whatsapp.

If the Male Companion happens to live near you or is in your city, you can also meet for a free, without obligation and personal meeting of about 45 minutes, e.g. in a café or bar.

If you then spontaneously decide to spend time with him, you can also start booking immediately afterwards.

In any case, the time before this remains “booking-free”.

What happens after your Booking Request?

First of all, thank you for starting a request without obligation via the booking form or the how to contact you have chosen.

In our society, the idea of a Woman “booking” a Man has mostly not yet arrived in people’s minds.

Although many talk about emancipation and equality and, conversely, it is normal for Men – more often than many think – to spend time with an escort lady.

Before your thoughts go round and round, here is the procedure:

After your first contact, the respective Male Escort will get back to you via the how to contact you have chosen. You can also send a message anonymously and without obligation using the contact form.

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Or contact the Male Companion directly using the email contact details at the bottom of their profile. Just as it suits you best.

You can tell us your questions, wishes or ideas in the Booking Request – provided you want to or have already thought about them.

Otherwise, your Male Companion will tell you how a first meeting between the two of you can start and proceed in a relaxed manner.

If you still want to keep a meeting open or are unsure and want to hear his voice in advance, you can also find out in a phone call. You can then discuss everything else on the phone.

If you just want to write before a potential date, that’s perfectly fine.

How does a meeting with a Gentleman Escort work?

Frequently asked questions: How does a date with a Male Escort work? Perhaps you already know where you feel most comfortable for a first meeting.

This could start with a dinner in a restaurant, a drink in a nice, attractive bar, in a hotel bar, in your hotel room or in your own four walls.

The former locations tend to offer the possibility of an open-ended evening.

Every person is individual, something special, with their own personality.

That’s why we would never say exactly how a meeting will develop.

However, we can assure you that your Exclusive Male Companion will treat you with openness, respect and pleasure, even if you may not believe this based on your experiences or self-perception in contact with Men.

Your Escort Companion for the hours or days together will create a good atmosphere so that you feel comfortable and will respond to the situation, which is probably unusual for you, with care and humor so that it feels more relaxed for both of you.

Your wishes and needs take center stage, even if these may change spontaneously.

How long should I book a Male Companion?

Are you thinking about the duration of the Escort Date when making a Booking Request? Depending on how you envision the Escort Date, your Male Escort will be happy to give you an estimate.

Can I extend the booking spontaneously on site?

If you spontaneously decide to extend the meeting, your Male Companion will be happy to take more time for you. No encounters with you are such that your Male Escort plans follow-up meetings.

Can I make outfit requests for the Gentleman Escorts?

You are welcome to express your outfit wishes.

For example, casual, smart casual, business casual, elegant for festive occasions, sporty, rock or whatever.

You can also tell your Male Companion about your special or unusual outfit preferences in advance.

If you do not specify any clothing requirements, your Male Escort will appear smart casual or business casual.

Who takes care of safe sex during intimate Escort Dates?

With an Escort for Women, your Male Companion is not only responsible, but also obliged to take care of safe sex and contraception.

He also guarantees his health through regular STI tests (Sexually Transmitted Infections Tests) and will be happy to provide you with a current test result on request.

Male Escorts carry out these tests regularly and professionally with an appropriate specialist, no self-tests!

What do I do if I want to book but the time is not yet right or is still unclear?

You can also send an indefinite, without obligation request to the Escort for Women via the booking form and add “flexible” or “later” to the desired date.

Your Male Escort and you write or call later, as it suits you best.

Your Experience Companion will be pleased if you continue to make enquiries for the future. That way he can plan better.

Where can I book an Male Escort without additional travel costs?

You do not need to worry about this for the Male Escorts on haut-nah and the associated Services for Women. His travel costs and expenses are included in the fee for Germany, Austria and Switzerland.

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As a Woman, am I "allowed" to book a Man?

This is one of the most frequently asked questions in people’s minds. There is a lot of talk about equal rights and the emancipation of Women. But booking a Male Escort as a Woman is still not socially acceptable in many people’s minds, while conversely many Men take the liberty of doing so and it is accepted.

We at haut-nah.org would like to encourage you as a Woman to take more care of YOURSELF again.

Affection, touch, sensuality, tenderness, physicality are very important for us as human beings, our well-being, our joy of live, our own physical experience, for our ability to touch.

When we leave this out of our lives, whether it’s because we no longer get it in our long-term committed relationship, we’ve been disappointed or hurt, haven’t always had good experiences with Men, or for whatever reason – we leave out a very important part of ourselves.

This does not mean that you need to book a Male Escort. However, it does give you this discreet and protected framework for your wishes, needs and fantasies.

There are also other ways. Talk to us about them. Either way, the haut-nah team would be delighted if you set off on your journey and start looking at what is good for you again!

Can I trust the Male Escorts on haut-nah at all?

haut-nah.org is one of the best-known Escort Portals for Women in German-speaking countries and the first address for Women who are looking for a reliable, sophisticated and, above all, natural and authentic Escort Companion for their wishes and needs.

The admission criteria for Companions, Gigolos, Male Escorts, Gentleman Escorts – whatever they are called – are very strict on haut-nah. They go through several stages and only very few who want to become Male Escorts are accepted.

In the event of disregard for mindful and respectful coexistence, a Male Companion will be immediately excluded from the haut-nah portal.

Seriousness, naturalness and discretion are not only a professional requirement at haut-nah, but are a matter of self-image and personal maturity for the team and the Gentleman-Male Escorts at haut-nah.

This is another reason why public relations work on the topics of Escort and Companionship for Women is important to us.

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What if the Male Escort does not find me attractive or we will not get along?

These questions can often be on a Woman’s mind.

Men too, by the way.

And to be honest: At the beginning of working as an Escort, every Escort Companion wondered what it would do to him to meet a Woman who perhaps doesn’t quite match his ideal image on the outside or the flow of conversation doesn’t come about in the same way.

These doubts have not been confirmed and so the Male Escorts here on haut-nah experience that they are happy to discover the special and stimulating in the encounter with you.

There are so many aspects of people that can be fascinating and from which we can draw inspiration.

Can I even let myself go with a Stranger?

Can I even let myself go with a strange Man?

That is a very exciting question.

We know from our own experience that we can spontaneously feel very attracted to certain people. Be it in personal conversations, via photos, profiles and mutual messages on dating sites, videos and interviews in public.

Our longings, our desires, our gut feeling, what we find attractive about the other person, the feeling of closeness, motivates us to want to get to know this person.

A stranger is nothing more than an undiscovered person and it is up to you to become a discoverer, of the other and more of yourself.

At the same time, we all have our own beliefs.

Imprinting, socialization, society, religion and experiences can lead us to doubt or reject what we actually intuitively sense, what we want to pursue, what we want to give a chance.

That would be a shame.

haut-nah.org would like to encourage you to follow your first impulses, to give your joy of discovery, your play instinct, your desires, needs and fantasies a chance.

If you are reading these lines and they appeal to you in any way, you may already feel like you are no longer a complete stranger to the Male Escort of your choice.

When you click on Booking Request or write an email, you give yourself the chance to take at least one step.

We and every Male Companion at haut-nah assure you that we will treat your request with respect, no matter what your motivation is.

When you then write or call the Rendezvous of your choice, you can get in tune with each other. You know this from phone calls or letters with strangers, e.g. in a professional context.

Your and the Male Companion’s empathic skills will help to reduce nervousness and insecurity.

By the time you meet, you will have already come a long way and will no longer be complete strangers.

And whether you can let yourself go or not:

You can only let yourself go if you feel supported.

You can only have this experience in a real encounter. Mental movies beforehand, beliefs or doubts, if it does not come to a decision, cannot bring wonderful new experiences.

And: You don’t need to worry about the Male Companion at your side during the encounter. If you don’t feel it, spontaneously change your mind during the meeting – he’ll be okay with it.

Maybe you’ve had other experiences with Men for whom it wasn’t okay and who reacted strangely, e.g. when things didn’t go according to their “plan” or you just didn’t feel “for more” when you met. That’s good. It shows that you can follow your gut feeling.

There should be no plan for an encounter. Every encounter is too unique for that.

Besides, Escort Dates are not the place where a Man is going to take something from you.

How many days in advance should I book?

Sometimes it works out quite spontaneously within a few days. If you send the Male Escort 2-3 date options, it is usually easier for him to plan. Simply enter your desired dates in the form under “Request” on the respective profile of your Rendezvous Companion or send him a message using his contact details in the profile.

If you plan a booking for a longer period of time, e.g. 3-4 weeks in advance, it is even easier for the Male Escort of your choice to find a date together.

Is there a money-back guarantee if I am not satisfied after a meeting?

The question probably comes more from: Will we even get along? Will the chemistry between us be right? What if we don’t?

Imagine you’re going shopping:

You see a great dress in the shop window, beautiful colors, perfectly cut.

You make a beeline for the entrance, your hands grasp the narrow, beautiful straps on the drawer with a flourish and you remove the coat hanger. In the cabin, you slip it over your body in anticipation. This fine fabric – how beautiful, how graceful it feels against your skin. The colors, well, a bit bright, probably due to the bright spotlight in the cabin. The fit – it’s a bit baggy here and there, but it looks good from the front.
Bought!

At home in front of your own mirror in a different light, you realize: Well – that was nothing after all. And anyway, what occasion am I supposed to wear this for?

You will probably have had your share of experiences with Men. Among other things, that they didn’t turn out to be what you thought they would be on the first date or how you painted a picture in your mind after the great written contact.

In our opinion, Men then – at least in these moments – lack a certain amount of access to themselves in order to be able to develop empathy and sensitivity and probably also naturalness and charisma.

We know from experience that things are different when you and an Escort Companion meet.

Not because he radiates empathy and presence as a means to an end, but because it is part of him and the Experience Companion at your side has a lot of fun and enjoys being with you. If this is the case, the humor and lightness between you will come naturally.

The same applies here: if you like, you can write or call beforehand without obligation. Voice and tone can be important to get in the mood and get to know each other a little. This way, you also give the Male Escort the opportunity to find out whether you feel comfortable with each other.

Even if the booking is not made. That’s not important. What is important is whether you like each other and whether you can create a good atmosphere. The Gentleman Escorts are happy to invest time in this if you wish.

You brought back the seemingly beautiful dress.

We’ll give it a try and see if you want to trade it in.

How are Male Escorts paid?

FAQ on payment: You can hand over the fee to your Male Companion in cash in an envelope at the beginning or end, e.g. discreetly on the table.

If the duration of the Escort Date has been left a little open in advance, you are welcome to hand over the gift at the end of the Rendezvous.

How does an Escort Companion deal with travel expenses?

Travel expenses are included in the fee at haut-nah.org in Escort for Women. In Germany, Switzerland and Austria.

Can an Escort Date be canceled?

If you have to cancel the Escort Date for private or professional reasons, please let your Escort Companion know 4 days before the planned date. But don’t worry: Should something unforeseen come up, you can reschedule the meeting within 5 weeks without any cancellation costs.

Otherwise a cancellation fee of 50% of the agreed fee will be charged.

Who takes care of the hotel booking for a meeting in a hotel room?

Frequently asked questions: Who is responsible for booking the hotel if I meet in a hotel room?

You are welcome to book a hotel of your choice directly.

However, if you do not wish to do this independently for reasons of discretion, your desired Male Escort will be happy to reserve the hotel room in his name.

Who can actually book an Male Escort (Man, Woman, Couples, transsexual, intersexual etc.)?

First of all:
It is good that our society is gradually moving towards more openness and acceptance when it comes to gender identity and sexuality.

Everyone should feel comfortable with themselves and their body and we have great understanding and respect for people who try to live the gender identity they feel from within. The same applies to sexuality, whether heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual or whatever.

You will find their sexual orientation at the end of each Male Escort’s profile. As a rule, this is heterosexual.

Male Escorts with heterosexual orientation in their profile:

For you as a Woman with heterosexual or bisexual orientations. As a Couple in whatever constellation, if the Woman should be the center of attention.

Male Escorts with bisexual orientation in their profile:

For you as a Woman with heterosexual or bisexual orientations. For you as a Man with homosexual or bisexual orientations. As a Couple in whatever constellation, if the Woman and/or Man should be the center of attention.

If you are transsexual or intersex, please write directly to the desired Male Escort in advance and ask him if you can find each other.

Can I book another Male or Female Escort (Duo-Date)? Does this change the fee?

So-called duo bookings are possible. This does not change the fee for your desired Male Escort. The fee for the additional Companionship will be added. If you are thinking about this, we will be happy to recommend another Male Escorts or Escort lady who are very confident in dealing with these situations and have experience.

Can I also book an Escort for a Couple-Date with my boyfriend or girlfriend?

Yes, the fee remains the same.