Male Escort Tom
"Trust is the beginning. Chemistry is the magic."Male Escort Tom
“Trust is the beginning. Chemistry is the magic.”
Safety – Trust – Courage – Curiosity – Playfulness – Touch – Adventure
I am a 48-year-old Finnish man, with a life well-lived and a heart still wide open. A gentleman shaped by two decades of marriage, fatherhood and authentic living. I’ve walked in many worlds – now I walk with you. I am fluent in English, Swedish and Finnish, and can hold an everyday conversation also in German. Educated as a medical doctor and psychotherapist, an international career as a professional magician.
Now, I offer something rare in this world – a truly attuned presence. My world has always been about connection. I meet people deeply. I listen with my whole self, and I know when to lead. I laugh easily. I carry no judgment. This isn’t just about company. It’s about connection – real, rich, and tailored to you.
My work as a male escort is not just about companionship – it’s about authentic intimacy, trust, and creating a space where you can simply be yourself. Always safely, consciously, and with full presence. Curiosity is my compass. I am not a Gay Escort. Hetero, yes – but I move with openness, respect, and zero judgment, to meet with women and couples who seek genuine connection – emotional, intellectual, or physical. I am open, playful, and grounded in respect.
- I know how to read a room. And more importantly, how to read you.
- You won’t need to explain much-I’ve walked with grief, love, loss, ambition and gratitude.
- My fashion is playful elegance. Tailored to the day, yet never trying too hard.
- I’m courageous enough to hold space, discreet enough to keep secrets, and witty enough to keep things light when needed.
Every encounter is uniquely crafted. No templates, no act. Just us.
Elegant Event Partner – The man who turns heads but only sees you.
Dinner Companion – Good conversation, slow laughter, genuine interest.
Weekend Getaway – Think: walks in nature, sports, or just a safe space to be seen and heard.
Emotional Intimacy – The rare kind. Held without pressure, with presence. 
Sensual Connection – If desired, and always safely. Conscious, attuned, consensual.
No matter the setting, you’ll feel seen. And safe.
No pretending. No pressure. Just real presence.
I don’t sell a fantasy. I offer reality – with extra sparkle.
Based in Finland and Germany, available and traveling all over Europe. All bookings are handled with the highest level of discretion and care. Let’s discover the rest together. I prefer a voice or video call beforehand (free of charge) to build connection and safety both ways.
Trust is the beginning. Chemistry is the magic.
Until we meet, warmly,
Tom
Vita and Lifestyle
Figure: 1.77 m, 65 kg, athletic
Age: 48
Orientation: heterosexual
Languages: Finnish (mother tongue), Swedish (fluent), English (fluent), German (very good)
Academic Degree / Profession: Doctorate / Dr. med., Gestalt Psychotherapist, Entrepreneur, Professional Magician
Special Qualifications: healing touch, broad conversational skills, dance, performance, creativity and surprise, authentic presence
Smoking behaviour; Non-Smoker
Alcohol: no
Tattoos / Piercings: no piercings, one tattoo on the right temple of the head
Sport: daily
Fees and Escort Services with Tom
Sweet-Time:
Sweet-Time Classic, New Beginning, Massage +, Essential*, Pay-Date, After-Business
2 hours: EUR 400, each additional hour: EUR 100
14 hours: EUR 950, e.g. overnight from 8pm – 10am
*Guide price
Social-Time:
Representative Companion for Special Occasions, Leisure and Activity Companionship
2 hours: EUR 300, each additional hour: EUR 80
Travel Costs and Expenses
Included in the fee within Germany, Austria, Switzerland and Europe!
Booking Rules
▶ Video call possible
☎︎ Telephone call possible
Male Escorts also available for Couples
🕐 Spontaneous extension of the booking meeting possible
Available: Berlin, Germany, Switzerland, Austria, Europe, International
How to contact: Booking Request or tom@haut-nah.org
Deposit: EUR 80 via Paypal or bank transfer upon final appointment
Testimonials from Women about Male Escort Tom
Booking Request (Quick & Easy)
You have the option of using the “Quick & Easy” Booking Request form here or the detailed “Guided” Booking Request form below. Either way: Your personal Experience Companion will contact you via your preferred How to contact after you have sent your request. Discreet, without obligation and free of charge.